Saw him playing maybe 3 Times in that Years. I KNOW that he loves me - he told me he did two days ago in a phone call and then he didn't respond to my three texts today and I do that damn scales balancing act thing that I hate so much. I cry a lot, he knows but i won't show him my Tears. I am currently being extremely patient with a Scorpio who is going through some tough times. He was the absolute gentleman, thoughtful and sweet, taking care of me for everything. He doesn't care about what you think. I am a pisces. Too much of us isn't good. he is soo sweet, and caring and loving and our sex is always great. But whenever were together, I feel he loves me somehow. To be honest, I struggle with my inner feelings and thoughts regularly and, struggle to come to terms with them let alone trying to explain them. All the time I have given them a real long rope and they have sadly tied it around their neck of their own accord. He basically begged for a second chance. What does he want from me How would I knw he is lying to me(scorpio) he said he is not over his ex and need time to deal with his feelings. He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. I don't know if he still likes me. Why would you wait around for this unstable twit to decide how he's going to yo yo again and how long you'll take it? but what actually is he doing? Every day & night he would text me or calling and today nothing. They are emotional people and express the emotion either openly or keep them buried depending on whether they trust you. What should I do ? 2. They are a little different . I have a huge problem I was dating my best friend who is a Scorpio and he was such an amazing man. I woke up the next day with him just going off his nut and blocking me on his facebok. The Scorpio man is one of the most emotional signs. Scorpio friend who ended up kissing me one night, has been gone for 2 weeks. This is both a blessing and a curse. One day we are talking future the next day he drops me cold. I just don't have time to waste. He lives a couple hours away from me and we talk enough but there are days when he doesn't. Have a Beautiful Daughter to the last of the 3 Loves. Thoughts? Knowing that you are doing well makes Scorpio man miss you and want to come back. I'm dealing with a Scorpio who says he loves me after 2 weeks of knowing him and has literally poured out his heart to me to only stop telling me these things weeks later. But I have a son who was looking up to him. Someone who is with me can never see it coming. I am crazy about this guy but if he keeps it up I'm going to have to let him go. Hes naturally secretive and very vindictive, dont stand for it and don't miss out waiting on him. Their element is water, meaning they navigate the world through their emotions. I reciprocate but I don't take things to heart. I really love him and I want to try again where I dont hurt him anymore. So I recently met a scorpio and we instantly had a spiritual, physical and emotional connection. Then i felt it got really cold, and then every once in a while he starts texting me, and acting like he's really into me again. I dont like some things I think or say, be they fact or not. So now it's been a bit over 2 weeks and I haven't heard from him, but I have been emailing him all the time and I know everyone said that I should ignore him. Then you can slowly start to open up and show your more sensitive side. I haven't acted clingy at all, and I don't plan on doing so at any point. What should I be doing when he is acting cold? A Scorpio is full of hidden secrets, kept deep within their heart that they're unwilling to reveal to even those they love the most. Suddenly it seems like he can't talk to me Like he's not allowed. He seldom wallows in envy or self-pity, and he doesn't happen to think that life owes him a single farthing. I could never settle for less than the best so I guess I will be on my own with just great memories of him. While Scorpio men are well known for being guarded and secretive, don't confuse those traits with dishonesty. Then he blocked me! This might be caused by problems early on in their lives that have made them insecure about being committed to someone who might not reciprocate. Without going into why he withdraws in the first place (more about that later), this is the best explanation I can give you for the stalker-to-stranger extremes. We'll cover: Scorpio is a fixed, feminine, water sign. Although Scorpio men are quick to pull the plug, he will start to pull away emotionally before this time. Me and Scorpio make broke up after being together for 2 years. I didn't take him serious. They would tell me they'd see me and try to say hi but I wouldn't notice them. My bf is soo hot and heavy everyday and then goes off the grid for no more than 48 hrs every so often, and it is usually cuz he is genuinely busy. I am the kind of Libra female who craves attention and if I don't hear from my Scorpio for ONE day - I begin to freak out and go back and forth - he loves me, he loves me not. Everything was good very attentive, nice and good listener he acted like everything was fine except for last Sunday something was off he was more irritated and sarcastic especially with his eyes and smirks. We're both show offs that work for each others attention, but sometimes he doesn't even acknowledge me. Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . I feel he did this because he was hurt because I shared my problems with others instead of going to him, I know he cares for me? Tell him how you feel. turned out a week later, he texted me that he got family problem, and i said..oohh..okay..and we chat like usual. This protective behavior comes naturally to them. Even i get scared of me. Two weeks after the kiss, we continued to talk. You can just imagine how much time that saves. He waited till Wednesday and texted 'Hey' I didn't text back I knew something was wrong and I was upset aswell. Now he says he loves me but it's not the same as it was. He could have met you while he was looking for someone to have fun with, but you turned out to be the wrong person for him. I guess I have to stop being such a Libra (=. I am a Cancer girl but a very strong personality as well. I will say he has the best heart and loves with all of it. He'll especially spend time on things he's passionate about such as art, music, or even his career. I seem to have trouble with expressing my feelings in an non emotional way, I do not like to hurt peoples feelings or burden them and, can let build up to an point and then either pull away or confront, normally in an an aggressive type manner, because dont really like confrontation. After all we have been together for 2 and I a half but he is not receptive to my feelings. I dont know what to do? I know he read some of my emails because one of the emails I was asking him to send me my stuff from his place and I got a message from FedEx that he sent my stuff. I can't say anything to him. He was really obsessive and then he'd cut me off for days. Both times we have broken up it was under false pretenses. It just means his mind is occupied. They constantly test you. We are holding back because we want to take in your love and see if ur the right person for us I think but really being a Scorpio is tough. These planets govern war, aggression, sexuality, and deep transformational change. He has no time to see me so I can't get answers. do I just go along with however he's feeling? Is this how Scorpio men behave? So that brought back memories.. We had a great connection, long amazing talks, which he would usually initiate, so we both agreed to take things slowly. We r used to flirting a lot, admit we like eachother but he has a girlfriend -- one that treats him awful and he knows it. If he tells you he likes or lives you and then disappears, find someone else! It seems his actions of disappearing whenever and to wherever have caused your self esteem to diminish. I've recently broken up with a Scorpion man. If a Scorpio man really cares about a person then it's really hard for them to forget that person, let alone disappear. because both times I had said something that was questioning if I'll leave him he would want to end it first. 10. He said "I am going to cause you stress, you will cause me stress" if we cant do that then we cant do this. while he's missing in action, i found another guy online and this guy is just a year older(gemini). Awesome! Your plan will not work if he pays no attention . So, he didn't respond for a while but when he responded he said that I guess i am right that we are not for each other and he tried his best, that he is sad and disappointed, and that he wanted to be the person that I give my love to but he wishes me to find someone who will. I'm very hurt and miss him so much! I just dont have the heart for scorpios mind games and Im tired of my emotions being played with. we do talk about sex, but the difference is, he want to know me deeper. Here are ten tell-tale signs that your Scorpio man's feelings around the relationship are changing: 1. I told him no and he was surprised. Cancer can seem defensive or indifferent, puzzling potential suitors. Magnitudes of a difference between each stage. He is royally pissed off, and instead of lashing out, he has decided to spare you his vindictive tongue. Genuine Confusion Scorpio men are emotional guys. A month or so before meeting, he opened up a lot about his personal life to me, and it felt like I was finally getting to know him as a person. Taurus in love with scorp on December 05, 2018: He is giving me silent treatment for over than one year. Keep your individuality and don't be needy or whiny. I have since been on a roller coaster ride and now haven't gotten a text or call for 6 weeks. I hate arguments and confrontations and i always try my hardest for my partner to undertsand him better and not hurt his feelings but he is confrontational type and arguments exhaust me. It's where you go out and enjoy yourself. Have I lost him for good? If he still doesn't answer, he isn't worth your time anyway. Keep this in mind so that you don't take his behavior personally. we dont live in the same roof but always exerting effort to see me even if he is not feeling well. With Mom's encouragement, we decided to meet in April 2014. He is a Scorpio, sweet, caring, thoughtful, listening well, good Manners, a real Love Bug. Conversations with him will feel like the world doesn't exist for him at all. Trust issue or what i dont know. I haven't called to see what's happening etc I'm just going to go do my own thing and let him be. 5 Key Takeaways 1. I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. Be successful . I just concluded that a woman has far too much control over my emotions. Source: Favim. but sometimes he shuts me out of his life for at least 3 or 4 days. I have no idea what happened with my scorpio male.he just suddenly changed. Take a look into his full natal chart to gain a more accurate understanding. 4 Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces): Very In Touch With Their Emotions, It Will Be Obvious When He's Not Interested. Scorpio is the most emotionally vulnerable sign, yet when they put up their defences, no one can damage them. It might seem like everything's fine when your Scorpio suddenly turns on you, leaving you feeling attacked for no reason. Scorpio in love is intense, loving, and enveloping. We have had periods of intense sexual conversation and then we lose contact for weeks to months, then one of us will reappear. No matter how sad you are, be happy and confident in whatever you do and you will soon catch his attention. I just told him I was over the whole thing and we havent spoken since. He may have been looking for a specific chemistry and didn't find it. male scorps). Tsurugi:I'm killed nee-san. 4. i met this scorpio guy age 32 online. I am so glad to hear that everyone is having the same concerns. Stay calm Final Words When a Scorpio Man Ignores You Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden? I have never cared or missed or loved anyone the way I do him. Go figure. Girls, start dating around casually, see what else is out there besides him. Im 17 and the scorpio ive been talking to is 17 also. He will be jealous in silence. While others are mumbling and crumbling and grumbling, he is at his forceful, courageous best. Scorpio man lives in his own way and does not care about others. You are theirs alone and nobody else's therefore, you can only share your personal feelings or opinions with him. Boyfriend lives in Arizona so communication is a big problem but we do get together on occasion and it is spectacular. The fixed signs represent the maximum strength of an element. He snoring very loud, don't tell him this omg, he sticks his Head up his Tube to not be heard..lol and he refuses to stay over Night cause of this. There are plenty of respectful, loyal, and honest folks born in Scorpio season, just as with any other sign. i know i;m not his priority. I too, fall for themwell, it's really more like tripping down the stairs :). He's not young, he should know I was a pissed female haha. He is so kind and thoughtful; brutally honest and very open when he is not withdrawn. Yes, a scorpio man is a one task at a time individual, so say that they have alot of things to accomplish in such a short period of time or they feel overwhelmed they tend to withdrawal a bit and it really takes a women whom is strong and can handle finding things to do on your own. I mean we have made so many plans. As you may already know, guys born under any of the water signs tend to be more emotional than men born under any other sign! I'm dating a Scorpio and I must say I've never seen men without feelings like Scorpio men. He came way strong and even texted to me that he could see being married to me. I am completely shocked by all of the responses. I told him many times I wasn't a good communicator but he said that's okay. They need lots of love , attention & affection . A Scorpio man in love will want to share his thoughts and feelings with you, and he will be more willing to talk about the relationship. Of course the purpose of being happy as well as having fun is to let him notice. He is very obsessive and jealous type of guy. Long story short - i asked him whether he was seeing someone and he replied yes, but he only went out for one date only. What Is A Scorpio Man Like? I would wait for him although as a Cancer I am really not good at waiting on people. Recently at work, a scorpio girl was chatting me up. What do I do with this friendship???!:((. Hi guys, I don't want to be offensive to anyone, but I don't understand why all of you don't walk, wait, run from a guy pulling this crap on you?? Scorpio Signs yes he has the most of them. What it takes to keep a Scorpio man interested largely depends on where he's at in development as an individual. Worrying about when he'll call will do you no good, so instead, make the day all about you. The first SANAI 1 base under construction. The very darkest parts of who they are will begin to emerge - the longer you're with them, the more you'll notice. I will say to the women having troubles however, that if he's disapearing for a WK or more regularly, it really has nothing to do with his sign and waay more to do with you're just not a major priority yet. The Scorpio Man likes having space. Take The Quiz: Is He Losing Interest? Sometimes a hug and affection is of more value than sexual relations. The following are key pillars of any strong relationship, but these may need some extra attention when dating a Scorpio. I must say sometimes we women tolerate too much nonsense. The first thing a Sagittarius will do after a break up is book a vacation. Then I get a long reply to my text were he doesn't see us going anywhere in a relationship because I can't communicate and I make funny faces and seem to take him as a joke and not seriously. He's amazing, caring, funny.. Just wonderful but when he is upset, he goes off the grid. Scorpio's feelings are profoundly felt, and while most water signs have trouble verbalizing their feelings, Scorpio has an all-or-nothing outlook on life. They will care about you if your part of that inner circle. They tell it all on a website or brood about it. I never seen this side of him. He a 7 year old Me a 2 year old. He explained he didnt want to do that until we were "OPEN" in front of his daughter about our seriousness. I met my Scorpio man in an online dating site on three weeks later and we fell in love within a few weeks into 2014. "Not only him, most of the Indians don't take tip for doing such thing, in fact we don't feel it's so big help, we grow up with . few days later, he message me telling his phone broke, and his chat is jammed. They are direct and purposeful, independent and overall pretty happy. Or he will suddenly have an "issue" where life seems overwhelming. This is so true! Everysince i felt hurt and texted him about how i felt and its been 4 days now he has not replied. If they keep asking, I either lash out because I want them to go away without explaining that I am upset or I pretend that I just don't feel well. First time he gave me the silent treatment I was a bit agitated with him because he kept calling me difficult and I got pissed and told him something mean like 'you better go back online and find an easy-going girl who had an easy life'. The Bug told me he is playing Music at some Bar so he invited me to come visit. usually he will reply with yes, love. @Sho - their is no possible chance of getting him back. 9) He plays the blame game. Tsurugi remembered about flashback that he killed his sister and real tsurugi was pass out when scorpio transform into real tsurugi. He finally texted me this morning, I was starting to wonder if he was doing the #5 thing! They are not brave or fearless in some areas such as walking away from someone who adores them. I'm not guaranteeing it will change, though. This Scorpio guy made me feel secure as every time I asked him something out of my curiosity (resulting from my insecure), he always gives that clear answer. Learn why the Scorpio in your life is withdrawn and seems distant. It tells me that he thinks the relationship is strong enough that he doesn't have to worry about putting on a show and being talkative every day. I also think it's easy to fall for them - at least in my case!!! A scorpio man is something else. nways, before our first meeting, i asked him to confirm our meeting but he didn't replied. I guess it was probly #1 thow since his mom is in the hospital. 6. Sometimes i fought with him , coz i thought he does not love me !!!!! I have stood by him knowing how hurt he is. I decided to stop emailing him and just wait for him to think all this through. The weird thing is that I'm on birth control so wtf just happened?! demanding, all this good Things a Guy should have . Karthik Kashyap from India on July 17, 2012: KrisNick09: I think I may be in situation 3. From what it looks like if you bother a Scorpio and show them you care they get upset. Understanding him 2. He did ask me many Time to come see him at the Gigs but i never went until last June. They are passionate creatures who love to communicate. In my opinion, we Scorpios take offhanded comments a bit too personally. 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